On December 31, not only children, but also adults think about how to make a wish for the New Year. There are many ways to find out the future on this magical night.
What wishes can you make?
On New Year's Eve, wishes are made not only for oneself. People ask for good things for their loved ones, and the message should be accurate. A list from which everyone can choose what suits them:
- Visit an interesting country that you have dreamed of since childhood.
- Every day you see the happy faces of your loved ones, tell them about your love, do something nice.
- Meet the one or only one and stay close for life.
- Create a family in which everyone will be warm and comfortable, and relationships will be built on friendship, love and mutual understanding.
- Get the dog or cat you've dreamed of since school.
- Relax on vacation in a way that you will remember forever.
- Become a businessman by opening a profitable business.
- From the first day of January, take care of yourself by purchasing a subscription to the fitness center.
- Lose weight by summer so you don't feel embarrassed about your appearance on the beach.
- Quit smoking from January 1st.
- Gather all your friends in the summer and celebrate the meeting.
- Make a parachute jump.
- Change the furniture in the bedroom.
- Learn to swim.
The wish may be the most unusual, but you should sincerely believe that it will come true.
What wishes cannot be made
You need to make the right wish for the New Year. There are restrictions that cannot be violated. It is forbidden to wish grief on any person, no matter who he is and no matter what bad he does to you. You cannot think of someone else's property as your own. Higher powers will not help in fulfilling the following desires:
- Receive a prestigious position as a result of dishonest play.
- Separate a husband or wife, take one of the spouses away from the family.
- Wish an incurable disease on someone else.
- Wish for someone to die.
The boomerang law works in life. Both good and bad things return to a person, but only in an intensified version. Therefore, any desire will someday return to you, so you should think carefully so that the magic of the holiday is only bright and does not darken the lives of those around you.
How to correctly formulate a desire
The wishes made for the New Year, formulated correctly and as accurately as possible, come true. The request must be sincere. The word has great power, and in order for the energy of what is said to be directed for good, you should adhere to the following rules:
- Do not use verbs in the past or future tense. This makes the desire unrealistic, pushing it back or sending it far ahead, and the dream will constantly move away from you. We must make a wish here and now. There is no need to ask for a good salary. The word “was” is a block that means that it was once, but not now, and the dream will not come true. We need to be grateful for what we have, for the wealth that grows every day.
- You cannot use dirty words that block the path to fulfillment of desires (“in short,” “as if,” “desirable”). It is prohibited to use the following expressions in wording: “without sparing life”, “nosebleed”, “at any cost”, etc. These concepts will be taken literally by higher powers, and the wish will come true, but it will not be what you wished for.
- You cannot think about the secret while experiencing negative emotions that activate the forces of evil. Only positivity will help your dreams come true.
- The fulfillment of a desire can be hindered by some limiting words. Used involuntarily in a formulation, they are a hindrance. You cannot use: “maybe”, “at least”, “should be”. Often, due to modesty, a person may wish for a small corner, but his own, instead of planning to purchase a normal apartment. Denial makes its own adjustments, and the wish comes true, but the new housing is a small room in a dorm.
- At the moment of making a wish, you need to clearly draw in your imagination the image of what you dream about. Vague pictures do not carry specifics, and dreams will remain dreams.
- For wishes to come true, you need to make them in the first person, this carries positive energy and has great power, attracting what you want.
- The desire must be formulated as if it has already come true. Thus, the dream quietly enters everyday life, and you begin to lose weight if you want it, or become a wealthy person if you want well-being.
- The wording should not indicate an exact time. You should not tie your desire to a year, month or day. The phrase “at the right time in the right place” is more appropriate. This is a coincidence that cannot be predicted. It is best not to think about what you have in mind, not to get hung up on this thought, but to give the higher powers the right to surprise you.
- Ethical desire is one of the main conditions. You can’t imagine that you bought an expensive, prestigious car and, with a feeling of jubilation, drive past your ill-wishers, who begin to envy. Wish your enemies well-being and good luck, and your dream will come true faster, because the good message will come back.
- The Universe does not tolerate restrictions, so any word must be treated with caution. The verbs “buy” and “acquire” can work differently in your desire. You can only buy with money, and you can acquire it in several ways: by winning, receiving an inheritance or a gift.
Magical ways to make wishes
There are many ways to make a wish for the New Year. An important condition that must be met is an accurate representation of what is desired. Well, if you still doubt, then you can.
Ashes in champagne
There must be champagne on the table. The desire must be formulated in advance. Thoughts that spontaneously come to mind will just as quickly disappear, and nothing will come true. You shouldn’t spend a lot of words, 2-3 will be enough, because everything needs to be done quickly, and it’s impossible to have time to write a long wish on paper, burn it, pour the ashes into a glass of champagne and drink it while the chimes are striking.
The wish is made in the first person; the following brief formulations can be used: get married (indicate the name of the chosen one), fly to Rome in the summer, find a good job, buy a house, etc. It is imperative to add the words “this year”, otherwise you will have to wait a long time for execution. You need to burn the piece of paper to ashes, otherwise there is no point in washing down a scrap of note with champagne: nothing will come true.
It is worth preparing thin and dry paper, small in size, in advance, and then everything will work out.
Food and drink
You can find out your fate by telling fortunes with treats. It’s worth taking a fresh apple from the New Year’s table and cutting it crosswise into halves. If the cut bones are arranged in the shape of an even star, then this predicts happiness and prosperity.
Special small pies are baked for the festive table; each one is filled with 1 button of a different color and something is said: red for love, green for health, yellow for fun, etc. Guests should be warned about the unusual filling to avoid any trouble. Everyone will find out the prediction for next year, it will be a good surprise for everyone.
As for drinks, you can guess with champagne. You need to throw a small coin or ring into a glass of sparkling wine and count the circles formed. An even number promises good luck, if you count an odd number, then throw another object into the drink and count carefully, then drink champagne, and luck will be on your side.
To attract good luck, you can dip your finger in champagne and place it on your right ear, and if a girl wants a young man to pay attention to her, then you can touch his ear with your finger containing champagne.
Toy on the Christmas tree
After 12 o'clock at night, toys can be removed from the tree; their number should be equal to the number of guests. It is best if the toys are the same shape and different shades.
Christmas tree decorations are put into a tight bag, and guests take out a toy that comes to hand. Color predicts the future:
- Red speaks of luck in love. For those who are in search of their other half, this color promises an unexpected meeting that will be decisive, and for spouses - strong relationships and good changes in life.
- The blue toy speaks of harmony in the soul and strengthening friendship. Soon there will be answers to questions that have been haunting. Your loved ones will always be there and help you solve problems.
Letter to Santa Claus
A letter to Santa Claus is a long-standing New Year's tradition. His children write with a request that their most cherished wish be fulfilled. Adults can also support this tradition and write about their dream, seal the letter and hide it in a safe place. If the wish is sincere and good, then it will come true within a year. And on the next New Year’s celebration, you can get together with the same company and read the letters near the Christmas tree. This will be a kind of analysis of the past year. Many will have a desire to write new letters, and this is the birth of a tradition.
Wish card
A wish card can help you make your dreams come true. It is compiled alone. You need to tune in to positive emotions, turn on calm music and get to work. Forget about troubles.
You will need whatman paper measuring 68x68 cm; it is divided into 9 identical sectors, each of which indicates a cardinal direction and has its own color:
- The northern section is blue, responsible for the career.
- The south is red, this is fame and success.
- The West is white, stimulates creativity, and is responsible for children.
- East - green, family relationships.
- Northwest - grey, travel sector.
- The northeast area will be light brown, this is wisdom.
- Southwest - brown, responsible for love.
- Southeast - light green, money sector.
Your own photograph is placed in the center. You can write your innermost desire next to it, but briefly and in the first person.
Pictures or photographs are pasted onto each zone - symbols of their desires. There should be no empty areas on the map.
On the last night of December, the layout of wishes is placed on the wall away from prying eyes. This could be a bedroom: when you wake up, you will see your desires every morning, stimulating them to come true.
Bags of stuff
For the celebration, you can prepare bags of goodness. Small beautiful bags are sewn in advance, treats (cakes, cookies or candies) are placed in them and good wishes are written on a postcard or beautiful paper. After the gifts have been distributed, you can read the wishes, which can become toasts at the festive table. The kindness that the guests wished each other will help everyone’s wishes come true.
Jumpers
You can buy small silicone multi-colored bouncing balls. After a hearty feast, guests take apart the bouncy balls and compete with each other to see whose ball can bounce the highest. The luckiest person is chosen and will be lucky all year.
12 grapes
This tradition originated in Spain and quickly took root in many countries. The meaning of this fortune telling is that everyone should stockpile 12 grapes and eat 1 berry when the clock strikes. 12 hits - 12 berries. Whoever manages to eat all the grapes will have good luck next year.
Dream drawing
On New Year's Eve, a cherished wish is depicted on paper, which is thought out in advance. The leaf needs to be rolled into a tube, tied with a red ribbon and hung on the Christmas tree. At Christmas, the image is hidden in a secluded place until the wish comes true.
During the year, at the subconscious level, a person will remember his dream and strive to fulfill it. When the wish comes true, you need to unfold the sheet and outline the image with red paint, enhancing its energy. You can keep the drawing until next New Year's Eve or until a new strong desire arises.
Desire for a snack
You can eat your wish on New Year's Eve. This works well if a person wants to visit a certain country. You need to find a recipe for a national dish and cook it. On New Year's Eve, the entire dish is eaten, so it is worth calculating your strength and portion of food. There is a high probability that your dream will come true in the new year.
Tangerine seed
Tangerines are New Year's fruits. They can also help make a wish come true: you need to close your eyes, take a slice of tangerine from the New Year’s table and eat it. If there was a bone in it, then this is a good sign, and the dream will soon come true.
Gifts for your loved one
On a magical night, you need to gift yourself with what you have long dreamed of, only you need to do this, throwing away all worries and worries, and then, along with the long-awaited gift, harmony and happiness will come to your soul, and the year will bring good luck and fulfillment of desires.
Desired crafts
Many families have a tradition of placing homemade gifts under the Christmas tree, in which good predictions are hidden. These could be gingerbread men or New Year's toys made of salt dough, papier-mâché or cold porcelain with secret pockets. Mittens and a warm sweater associated with love, in which wishes of happiness and good luck are hidden, will be a good surprise for a loved one.
Message from the Universe
A letter to the Universe is a direct appeal to higher powers with a request to fulfill the most secret things. It is drawn up on beautiful paper; the content must include gratitude for what you have and clearly formulated 1 or more wishes.
The letter is sealed in an unusual envelope, addressed to a generous and abundant Universe that fulfills all desires, your name must be written in the sender's line, and the message is hidden under a decorated Christmas tree to start the activation process. The envelope should not be visible to anyone around you. Early in the morning of January 1, while everyone at home is sleeping, you need to quietly leave the house and drop a letter in the mailbox at the nearest post office. If it is not there, then the envelope is slipped under the door. The letter will find its addressee, and your dreams will come true.
Turn your dream into a goal
To turn a dream into a goal, making a wish is not enough. It is necessary to think about him constantly, not to give in to despondency and to do good deeds. Sad thoughts slow down everything good, so you need to tune in to a positive wave and thank the Universe for what you have, and the person will be given what he wants.
Vikium
Vikium is a brain training service that helps develop a person's hidden abilities. By working on yourself, you can learn to fulfill desires that may appear in your head not only on December 31st.
Christmas tree
The New Year tree is considered a conductor of cosmic energy. In the direction from the ground up, the spruce transmits desires to the Universe.
In order for wishes made near the Christmas tree to come true, you need to follow these rules:
- Only a man should install the tree and put the top on it.
- A woman chooses a place for a tree and decorates it.
- Every year you need to buy 3 new balls for the Christmas tree, of which the first one is a desire amplifier for the whole year; you need to hang it on the upper branches, while mentally imagining the wish fulfilled. The second is a symbol of wealth and prosperity. You need to make some kind of material wish and hang the decoration in the middle of the tree. The third ball is a symbol of our planet, therefore, hanging it on the lower branches, you need to wish all people their dreams come true.
Make a wish for red
The color red, according to the beliefs of many peoples, attracts money, so on New Year's Eve you should wear something red - it could be a belt, some piece of clothing or red underwear. During the chiming clock, you need to present a red cloth with a lot of money on it so that your well-being will improve next year.
By simoron
The simoron technique is a farewell to everything bad, so that troubles remain in the old year, and good luck settles next to a person in the new year. Optimists can perform several magical rites and rituals that will help fulfill the most secret things:
- You need to choose the largest and most beautifully decorated tree on the street, write a wish on paper and place it inside a Christmas tree decoration taken from home. Walk around the tree 9 times and read the Simoron spell to make a wish come true. Hang the brought toy on the highest branch that you can reach.
- Charged tangerines can help make any dream come true. Write 1 word on the fruits (love, money, happiness, mutual understanding, etc.), then eat them all, you can gradually. If you want to convey positivity to a dear person, then you should treat him with Simoron mandarin.
Dishes
In the last days of December, you need to throw away all chipped and cracked dishes from the house so that bad luck goes away with it.
The New Year's table is decorated with beautiful sets that attract good luck and create a festive atmosphere. According to legends, on the night from December 31 to January 1, one should not break dishes, otherwise the wishes made at this time will not come true.
New Year in the forest
The pristine beauty of nature and the sparkle of snowflakes in the light of the fire create an indescribable magical atmosphere in which you can make a wish while the sparkler burns. It’s worth voicing your dream while looking into the New Year’s sky, and the Universe will hear you, because you will be one with nature.
After the New Year
After the holiday, a new life begins, and do not forget about the wishes that were made on New Year's Eve. You need to take the first step to fulfill them. Those who wish to say goodbye to smoking should try to do so. It is worth thinking about the child’s desire and trying to fulfill it, and then the son or daughter will believe in the fairy tale.
If there are many desires
If you have a lot of wishes, then you can make them on Christmas night or before January 31, also don’t forget about and. You just need to believe that they will come true.
The most fabulous time of the year is just around the corner - New Year's Eve. For most people, New Year is a favorite holiday; preparation for it begins long before the event itself. This day is associated with the implementation of plans and aspirations, because at midnight a wish is made that will definitely come true. On New Year's Eve there is a transition to the next stage, which is capable of materializing thoughts. Traditionally, a wish is made while the chimes are striking, and there is an explanation for this: in the first 60 seconds of the New Year, the energy of the Universe is at its peak of activity. It is important to have time to transmit thoughts into space in 12 beats, unquestioningly believing that they will become reality. But to implement it, you must adhere to the basic rules.
Think about your wishes in advance
On New Year's Eve, extremely little time is allotted for sending to the Universe - 1 minute. Many people, with the chimes striking, wish for the first thing that comes to mind, without attaching much importance to the thoughts. But for the dream to become a reality, it is worth thinking about the most intimate things long before the holiday.
Astrologers recommend keeping a notebook in which you should write down goals and thoughts for 3-4 months. The notes should be as detailed as possible so that you can visualize your dream. This will help you understand what you really want. Perhaps what seemed important 3 months ago will no longer be paramount on New Year's Eve.
The desire should not have a negative message
New Year's Eve is a fabulous time, a positive attitude and an atmosphere of happiness. Don’t spoil the moment with negative emotions or make a wish that could harm others.
It is important not to forget about the boomerang law: negative things always come back. The desire must be sincere, coming from the heart, and not aimed at attracting troubles in the lives of strangers. Such a message will still not reach the Universe, and the holiday will be hopelessly spoiled by bad thoughts.
Correct wording is the key to execution
Thinking through a desire carefully is not enough. To receive help from higher powers, you need to correctly formulate your goal. The phrase must not contain the negative particle “not”. Astrologers have an explanation for this: negative forms give the exact opposite effect.
Desires with the wording “I don’t want to get sick in the new year” will be interpreted incorrectly by higher powers, omitting the “NOT” particle. It’s better to forget about denials and make wishes in a different way: “I want to be healthy and full of strength.” Correct formulation is half the battle.
Formulate the ultimate goal
Higher powers know what steps need to be taken so that the result meets expectations. On New Year's Eve, you cannot make complex wishes that involve multi-stage plans. The wording should sound so as to convey exclusively the final goal. There is no need to think, “I want to climb the career ladder in order to support my family at the proper level.”
You shouldn’t think about how the goal will be achieved, you just need to go towards your dream without hindering circumstances. It’s enough to just say “I want to support my family at the proper level,” because for this you don’t have to get promoted. Income may come from an alternative source, and you may have to quit your job altogether. Often dreams come true in ways no one could have imagined.
Focus on a single desire
Many people try to make several wishes during the chiming clock; this is a fundamentally wrong approach. Astrologers recommend focusing on a single, most cherished goal, then the chances of fulfillment increase many times over. It has been proven that thoughts are material, what you really want comes true, what comes from the heart. It is not enough to be sure that everything will work out, you need to know that your dream will come true.
Gratitude for the past year
Before you make a wish, you should say thank you to the old outgoing year and the Universe. For vacation trips, experience, knowledge, sources of income and other achievements. Astrologers recommend writing down on a blank sheet of paper everything that was achieved in the old year and reading it out loud an hour before the new year begins.
Proven methods
The given rules will help you achieve your goal. But to make a dream come true, you also need ways. There are several proven methods with which you can bring your plans to life.
Method No1. Notes for the chimes. The traditional method used most often. While the chimes are striking, you need to write your cherished wish on a napkin, burn it, throw the ashes into a glass of champagne and take a sip. But this method almost never works: a person cannot truly concentrate, writing down a goal instinctively.
Burnt paper in a glass will not help make your dream come true: there was no sincere message to the Universe. Experts recommend slightly modifying the method: clearly formulate a goal, visualize it, and then drink a glass of champagne. A wish made during the period of peak activity of the Universe will certainly come true without dubious manipulations.
Method No2. Paper airplanes. This method requires a blank landscape sheet. You should write down your sincere wishes on it. It is also recommended to present pictures of how this will come true. When everything is ready, you need to build an airplane from a sheet of paper and launch it into the sky from a window or balcony while the chimes strike. Many have noticed that the effect of this method is much stronger, and it is much easier to implement it than writing a wish on a napkin in a minute, burning it and drinking a glass of champagne.
Method No3. Write a letter to Santa Claus. It's not as stupid as it seems. You don't have to be a child to write a note to your magical grandfather. The fact is that what is written on paper is carried out several times faster. Such a letter carries a special message to the Universe and materializes thoughts.
To make your wish come true, you need to write a letter in advance, seal it in a thick envelope and put it under the tree during the New Year holidays. Just for fun, you can save the letter and check on the next New Year’s Eve which of what you wrote has been fulfilled.
New Year's wishes should be filled with sincerity and kindness. You need to believe that miracles happen not only in fairy tales, and then everything will definitely work out. It is better to forget about embarrassment, wishing for the maximum and not limiting higher powers. After all, this is what miracles are for. The main thing is not to forget that the desire should not concern other people, including relatives. You can only ask for yourself, because others may have completely different plans.
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It is no secret that the New Year is the most favorite holiday for almost all people; it is rare to meet a person who does not look forward to this magical night. And, of course, it’s not just about the holidays, when you can take a break from work and enjoy life, but the fact that on December 31 at midnight you can make any wish. In popular films, a wish made on New Year's Eve always comes true, but for some reason in real life this does not always happen. Perhaps we just don’t know how to express our dreams correctly?1. Think about your desire in advance.
In order for the percentage of execution to be as high as possible, it is necessary to prepare for this moment in advance. Experts advise you to think carefully about what desire is most important to you. In addition, in order to simply understand what you want most, it is also important to correctly formulate your message to the Universe.2. The desire must be sincere and not bring trouble to anyone.
It is quite possible that the desire “for Maria Ivanovna, the head of my department, to glue the fins together this year” will be very sincere, but it is better not to make it and not to waste the only chance of the year on attracting troubles into someone else’s life. Moreover, desires that carry a clearly negative message towards other people (so that you choke, so that his hands wither) usually do not come true or come true exactly the opposite. Those. Maria Ivanovna’s affairs will suddenly go uphill, but you will experience some unpleasant nonsense with your health, leading to thoughts about the frailty of existence and injustice in life.3. New Year's wishes must be formulated correctly.
As experts in this area say, a correctly formulated desire should not have negative formulations, such as “in the new year I want not to get sick.” It would be correct as “I will be healthy in the New Year.” It is quite logical that the desire “in the new year I don’t want to be alone” is better replaced with: “in the new year I will have a happy relationship with a good, free man.” As you can see, in addition to denial, you also need to carefully approach your desires, because the good man you have in mind may have been happily married for a long time.4. Don’t tell the Universe what to do.
You shouldn’t think of “multiple tricks” to achieve your dream, “I want to get a promotion so that I have enough money for a mortgage.” It is quite clear that the ultimate goal of all these manipulations will be “in the new year I will have my new two-room apartment.” The Universe knows better what ways to lead you to the fulfillment of your desire. Often this is exactly what happens, desires come true, but in a way we least could have imagined. The man of your dreams meets not at a resort, but on a boring business trip; A new job is found not through intensive searches on special sites, but through an unexpected offer from friends.5. Make one wish.
Of course, there is no such set of rules that clearly states how many wishes can be made in. But experts in their field recommend focusing on one single desire, thus the likelihood of its fulfillment increases many times over. It has long been noticed that the most sincere, most desired dreams, which really come from the bottom of my heart and with all my soul, come true. True, then some people don’t know what to do with them, but that’s another story. So, if you want to increase the percentage of wish fulfillment to the maximum level, then focus on one single wish and then the chances that it will come true will increase many times over.6. To the chimes.
Everyone knows the story of burned paper, champagne and swallowed ashes, but for some reason this method does not work for almost anyone. And this is quite logical, the fulfillment of your desire cannot depend on how quickly you chew partially burnt paper soaked in champagne. Therefore, you can make a wish differently, without risking your stomach and without frantically scribbling “I want to marry Kolya” on a napkin in crooked handwriting. Experts advise you to do it a little differently, think in advance what kind of wish you will make, then formulate it correctly and pronounce it to yourself while the chimes strike, and then take a traditional sip of champagne. A wish made at the turn of time, and even correctly formulated and sent into the Universe, simply cannot fail to come true.7. Let go of your desire.
Personally, I really like another way of making a wish on New Year's Eve. For some reason, it seems to me more romantic than fiddling with ashes and champagne, and the percentage of getting into the top ten is much higher for this method (tested empirically). We will need a sheet of white paper (necessarily a blank sheet, without initial inscriptions, this is the main condition) on which you write with your own hand what you would like to gain next year. Then you make an “airplane” or “birdie”, whoever has enough intelligence or ingenuity for what, and at the stroke of midnight, with the chime, you send a wish into the sky (you can from the balcony, you can go outside and launch the airplane).But the most important thing is not how to make a wish correctly, and not how to “launch” or “drink” it correctly. The main thing is to sincerely believe that your wish will definitely come true. Otherwise, why do we need a New Year if we don’t hope for a miracle?
Hello dear readers. We are all waiting for the onset of December, when we can already start planning the New Year celebrations. Both adults and children rejoice at this holiday, because this is the only night of the year when you can safely make wishes, and they will definitely come true. During this magical time, everyone wants their dream to come true, but not everyone knows how to make a wish correctly. In general, this is a whole New Year’s ritual that must be carried out according to certain rules. Of course, you can also make a wish mentally, but it is unlikely that such a wish will come true in the near future. We must respectfully turn to the approaching year, or rather to its symbol, so that it will contribute to the fulfillment of the desire we have made.
Therefore, it’s time to get acquainted with practical advice, which will outline the specific sequence of actions necessary to carry out the correct ritual.
We need a 100% guarantee that our wishes will come true, right? And such a guarantee can be given to us by holding certain New Year rituals, which we will talk about very soon.
How to make a wish for the New Year. 17 ways to make it come true
The practical part of the ritual will not cause you any difficulties at all. But if not everything, then a lot depends on the correct formulation of your cherished desire.
It happens that not only does a wish not come true, but also any opportunity for its fulfillment disappears. It is worth remembering exactly how the sentence was constructed, because often on a subconscious level we construct it with a certain degree of denial of the desire itself.
Many people underestimate New Year's Eve, because they believe that you can make a wish on any day, and you shouldn't wait for the right time. Others don’t even believe in realizing their dreams on their own, but that’s a completely different question.
We know that a wish can come true if we approach this issue correctly. Wishes made on New Year's Day have special power, especially when they are supported by certain actions.
Therefore, it is important to ensure that the desire is formulated correctly, because the success of its implementation depends on this.
Follow these rules:
Rule #1
✔ It is necessary to formulate a desire in the present tense , because quite often we build our desires in the past tense: “I want my loved ones to be healthy.”
That is, in our desire the future collides with the past, and this is not entirely correct. The Universe regards this as something that already existed once: “your loved ones were healthy.” Therefore, it is better to build a sentence in this way: “my loved ones are healthy, and every day they feel better.” Essentially, you don't stay in the past, but you don't run into the future either.
Rule #2
✔ Try to avoid any denial of your desires , because they can be taken literally.
We are used to saying what we don’t want, for example: “I don’t want to lose my position.” The particle “not” gives our desire a negative connotation, which is why the result is that the person actually loses his job. It’s better to say, “I want to stay in my position,” so your energy is directed towards exactly what you really want. Desire with denial speaks of the fear that oppresses a person, and fears, as we know, come true.
Rule #3
✔ It is advisable to make a positive message after each wish you make., which would indicate that you really need what you wished for.
In addition, you need to emphasize that making your desire come true is very simple, and it is done with great pleasure. For example: “this will benefit my family” or “all this can be done very easily.”
Rule #4
✔ Do not use the words “should” or “must”.
Just as you don't owe anyone anything, neither do you, so you need to replace them with words with a more positive attitude. Also, you should not promise something, because promises are not always fulfilled by people either.
Rule #5
✔ Desires should not carry any negative energy , because they can even harm you.
Often people use wishes for another person as a wish, and sometimes they are not of the most positive content. Remember that the Universe does not tolerate negative wishes, because everything you wish for can easily return to you, but in a completely different size.
Rule #6
✔ Give thanks for what you already have.
Many people only know how to ask for help, but will never be grateful for it. Know how to appreciate what life has given you, otherwise you simply will not be able to appreciate the fulfillment of your cherished desire given by the Universe. You shouldn’t ask for everything at once, but don’t be afraid to ask for what you really deserve.
Rule No. 7
✔ The words “at least” should not be used.
Ask for what you think is necessary, because such words only diminish your dream, without making its implementation complete. The universe will listen and fulfill your every desire if you ask for it correctly.
Rule #8
✔ Try to clearly imagine how your wish will come true, and how you feel about it.
Avoid any abstract expressions that could be interpreted ambiguously. The saying should be simple and understandable, which will help you avoid the fulfillment of “not your” desires.
Rule #9
✔ Believe in the implementation of your plans , soak up its energy.
The right attitude and faith play an important role in the process of making your desire come true. After all, if you don’t believe in your dream, then maybe you don’t really want it to come true.
Therefore, it is so important to choose exactly the desire that you really need to come true.
New Year's wish - TOP 8 ways to make and fulfill your plans
You already know how to formulate your request correctly, and now it’s time to move on to the practical part, which, in fact, will bring you closer to your dream. There are a sufficient number of methods from which you can choose the one that you like best. The main thing here is that a person has the desire to fulfill his desire.
This method can probably already be considered a classic, because such a ritual has been carried out every year for many years. In general, one can guess that if this method has gained such popularity, then it has helped to fulfill more than one desire.
You need to prepare in advance small pieces of paper on which you will write your wishes. And you should start writing them at the last minute of the old year.
Please note that you need to think through the formulation of your desires in advance in order not to get confused at the right moment, because you will not have as much time as it seems.
The paper with what is written should be burned as quickly as possible, and the remaining ashes should be thrown into a glass of champagne. The contents of the glass must be drunk before the clock strikes midnight and the New Year begins. Here it is important to drink all the liquid along with the ashes, leaving nothing in the glass.
But don’t forget to congratulate your loved ones on the coming of another year, for which everyone has high hopes. In general, the most important part lies in formulating your dream, and everything else can be done in one minute.
2. Dish as a symbol of dreams
As always, at the first stage you need to correctly formulate your desire, based on the rules that we have already familiarized with. In addition, you need to clearly decide for yourself that this desire is the most important and you really need its implementation.
Now try to describe your dream in three words. If you dream of a new apartment, then decide what it represents. Usually a new apartment is the beginning of something new - family, security and comfort.
Well, if your desire is to create your own family - this is love, motherhood and devotion. In general, you must clearly decide what this or that desire means to you.
Well, now you need to choose the symbol of your dreams, which you can reflect in the form of a delicious New Year's dish. Do you want to visit a specific country? Bake a cake in the shape of its symbol or buy a drink from the same country at the store. Well, if your dream is some material thing, then just try to give the dish its shape.
Make a wish and feel free to start eating the dish that symbolizes it. In addition, you and your guests will be faced with the task of eating a dish or drinking a drink completely, because this is the only way your wish will come true next year.
3. Making a wish while jumping from a chair
The time of the New Year is magical, so you need to try to seize this moment and ask the symbol of the next year for help.
And to do this, you just need to stand on a chair and make your wish. Just like in childhood, when you had to sit on a chair and recite a memorized New Year’s verse in front of the whole family.
Standing on a chair, you need to imagine as clearly as possible the moment when your wish will come true. Imagine yourself in the environment where you want to be and the emotions you want to feel.
Why exactly do you need to stand on a chair? The fact is that in the last seconds of the old year you will need to have time to jump out of your chair. Thus, it is as if you are moving not only into the new year, but also into a new life, where your wishes have already come true.
4. Letter to Santa Claus
Do not think that only children can write such letters. Of course, we all understand that such messages will not reach the recipient, but you will not do this for him at all, right?
Writing a letter here is regarded more as a ritual that will help you express all your desires in the correct form, which will help them come true. After you have put everything you dream about on paper, you need to hide the letter in an envelope that will protect it from prying eyes.
We leave the envelope with the letter under the tree until the moment when you have a desire to remove it. Usually the New Year tree is removed with the onset of spring, so your desires will have plenty of time to soak up the festive energy.
When you decide to remove the New Year's tree, you need to hide your letter in a secluded place where no one will get to your dream.
Imagine how interesting it will be for you to open this envelope a year later and read your desires that you so dreamed of at the end of last year. That's when you can check whether at least one of them came true or not.
5. Postcard with a picture of a dream
In order to find the right card that will depict your desire, you will have to sweat a little.
If one is not found, there is an option to independently create the design of the postcard you need and print it on a printer.
On the back of the card, write your wishes to yourself, after which you will have to send it to yourself via mail. Yes, it sounds a little strange, but believe me, making your wish come true is worth it.
You should also keep such a postcard throughout the whole year, and by the time the next one comes, you will probably be interested in remembering the past and checking whether your dream has come true.
6. Wish card
But this card is unusual; it will not consist only of written words. You can depict your desires, either in the form of a diagram or in the form of drawings or photographs.
Basically, you will need a small piece of plastic, which will serve as the basis for your desires. You can place on them everything that is somehow related to your most cherished dreams. By the way, magazine clippings will be the most ideal means of expressing your desires.
Please note that it is best to make such a card on the last day of the year. So, thoughts about the upcoming fulfillment of desires will not leave you until midnight.
7. Forest round dance of wish fulfillment
No matter how funny it may sound, even a round dance can help you in this matter. The most interesting thing is that you will have to dance in the forest, but don’t be alarmed, you definitely won’t have to do this on New Year’s Eve.
A few days before the New Year, you will have to go to the forest, gathering all your friends and family. Don't be lazy and take with you a few Christmas tree decorations, rain and sparklers.
Dress up any Christmas tree you like and dance around it. It is important here that everyone present has fun and joy. Children will like this idea the most.
It is at this time that you need to concentrate as much as possible on your desires and think about them constantly.
8. Bottle with wishes
This method is most suitable for that moment of New Year's Eve when the bottle of champagne has already been emptied. Each of the guests must write a dream on a small piece of paper and roll it into a tube.
We place all the “tubes” with desires in a bottle and close it with a cork. Place the bottle out of sight, somewhere dark.
The ashes of a treasured piece of paper in a glass of champagne, 12 white grapes swallowed while the clock strikes, a coin under the tablecloth as a symbol of wealth, or new red underwear as a guarantee of hot sex - you may have already done all this, more than once. If it seems to you that traditional signs do not work, it is better to choose a time and perform your own ritual... not forgetting the rules of Feng Shui and the advice of psychologists.
1. In a couple of days: free up space
Why do some dreams come true and others don't? Maybe there is simply not enough room for them in your life? It’s better to start preparing New Year’s wishes by saying goodbye to the past. Moreover, you need to part with him both in word and in deed.
It’s not enough to simply brush off the dust and remove from the surface everything that is out of place. As you walk through the house, carefully look around to notice and throw away everything that is broken, old and unnecessary without regret. Look into your closets and get rid of at least those items or pairs of shoes that you have never worn in the previous 12 months. In general, all items from the “what if you need it” category are solid candidates for discarding. The Chinese or Feng Shui experts would say that such things accumulate stagnant, blocking energy. The Italian New Year's tradition is based on approximately the same logic: on December 31, not only clothes, but sometimes even old furniture fly from windows and balconies. The meaning of “sorting out the rubble” is to clear the space around of what is pulling into the past and make room for something new in your own life.
Think about what some of the things that you are getting rid of may be associated with for you: old misconceptions, old habits, empty affairs, outdated connections, wrong relationships - everything that you want to leave in the past. If you are outside the city or have a fireplace in the house, it is good to throw several of the most “charged” symbolic objects into the fire: for example, a crumpled cigarette pack, a receipt from an unnecessary purchase, a note from an unpleasant person...
Don't forget to clean your desktop, remove all junk from your mail, update your diaries and notebooks.
In the days remaining until the New Year, try to complete at least one (even small) task, fulfill a promise to someone, or repay a debt. Listen to yourself and notice how a new feeling of lightness grows inside.
2. The day before: set a vector of desires
It is customary to thank the passing year by remembering all the good things. This ritual has an important psychological meaning. Over the past 12 months, you have changed, and your desires have changed with you (even if it is not obvious at first glance). By analyzing your feelings and assessing events, you can form a vector of movement for the better. To do this, you can use NLP techniques. Take 2 sheets of paper and a pen, find a few free minutes and try to honestly answer the following questions.
Analysis:
Remember: what events happened in your life over the past year?
Which ones were the most joyful - and why?
Which ones are the most unpleasant and why?
Write down the three most important themes that have defined the past year.
Which of the following do you NOT want to face in the new year?
What have you achieved that you are most proud of?
What do you think others underestimated?
What is your biggest regret that happened this year?
What did you wish for that did not come true?
How do you feel the general mood of the passing year? Notice both positive and negative emotions.
Conclusions:
Looking back, what did you miss most in the past year? (For example: time, money, support, determination, etc.)
If something happened again, what would you do differently?
What has this year taught you, what lessons will you remember?
Name at least three things for which you are grateful to other people, the Universe, and life itself.
Name at least three things you are grateful to yourself for.
Save the piece of paper with the second list (“Conclusions”), and burn the first, still listening carefully to the feeling of lightness that continues to grow inside. By celebrating positive changes, you start the movement of time.
3. Night of December 31st: “charge” your dream
If the previous stages of work have been completed correctly, you are ready to name your desires. It is important to formulate them specifically, with details and your own feelings: imagine exactly what you feel when they become a reality.
Pay attention to what or who your desire is directed at: you personally; on your relationships with people; globally on your role in this life or place in the Universe.
Try to place the main emphasis not on external circumstances (for example, “I want to meet the ideal man”), but on your own role and quality in this situation (“I want to be a happy, loved and loving woman”).
Eliminate any negations and the “not” particle: for example, instead of “I want to lose 10 kg,” it is better to say “It’s easy for me, I’m at the optimal weight and in great shape”; instead of “I don’t need anything” - “I always have enough money for what is important to me.”
Our words have powerful energy: if the desire is correctly formulated and written down, it becomes a goal, and the Universe immediately begins to implement it. Place the piece of paper with your wishes in an envelope and hide it in a secluded place. If in the process of work your imagination has created some kind of symbolic image, try to draw it - carefully, in colors, with love. Roll this piece of paper into a roll, tie it with a ribbon and hang it on the New Year tree: after the holidays it will also need to be removed in order to be unrolled next December.
Finally, to consolidate the result, on the first day (or even the first night) of the new year, you can perform the “Ritual of Eight Oranges.” It is believed that these solar fruits embody the energy of prosperity and joy of life, and the number “8” symbolizes prosperity according to Feng Shui. When entering the house, throw them onto the floor over the threshold so that they roll throughout all rooms except the bathroom and toilet. While rolling the oranges, sincerely and out loud wish yourself all the best - happiness, love, success, wealth, health, etc. During the first week of the New Year, give these fruits to your guests or neighbors. But most importantly, catch the feeling of the holiday and carry it into the future: your dreams are already beginning to come true!
